> So, just tell them that it is being taped on your side too and leave it
> at that.  Actually that is a good stratigy anyway. it say that I am
> paying attention to the details and we are playing on a relatively level
> playing field...  If this causes them to play streight and not lie then
> I win.  If they lie and I then take them to court after playing by the
> rules I have a good chance of winning...


agreed

(but i would like to catch them in a lie--wouldn't that be fun?  david v.
goliath)