Just stop.  All of us.

There are at least two sides to every story and any discussion in this
forum will not resolve anything.  It is off-topic and a waste of bandwidth.

Deleting this thread form the archive has been discussed.  I make no
promises in that regard.  All participants in this thread know it is a
publicly archived email list.  If you don't want it recorded, don't post
it here.

I personally am going to ignore any further activity on this thread.

Alan