That means you "manually installed it". 

I did?

>Mike it looks like one of you systems is on the wireless and the other on the Wired.
Yes, that is correct. Both connected to the modem

>Can you run on both servers:
># apt-get install nmap
>Then on each server:
># nmap -PN 192.168.0.3
># nmap -PN 192.168.0.4
>and post that?
 
bmike1@Michaels-PC:/etc/init.d$ sudo nmap -PN 192.168.0.3

Starting Nmap 5.21 ( http://nmap.org ) at 2012-03-31 12:38 MST
Nmap scan report for 192.168.0.3
Host is up (0.000045s latency).
Not shown: 992 closed ports
PORT     STATE SERVICE
22/tcp   open  ssh
80/tcp   open  http
139/tcp  open  netbios-ssn
443/tcp  open  https
445/tcp  open  microsoft-ds
631/tcp  open  ipp
5800/tcp open  vnc-http
5900/tcp open  vnc

Nmap done: 1 IP address (1 host up) scanned in 0.80 seconds
bmike1@Michaels-PC:/etc/init.d$ sudo nmap -PN 192.168.0.4

Starting Nmap 5.21 ( http://nmap.org ) at 2012-03-31 12:38 MST
Nmap scan report for Michaels-Laptop (192.168.0.4)
Host is up (0.0076s latency).
Not shown: 999 closed ports
PORT   STATE SERVICE
22/tcp open  ssh
MAC Address: 94:39:E5:11:B8:84 (Unknown)

Nmap done: 1 IP address (1 host up) scanned in 1.94 seconds
bmike1@Michaels-PC:/etc/init.d$



 
Michaels-Laptop ~ #
 The synaptic report is at 'a'.


  bmike1@Michaels-PC:~$ /etc/init.d/sshd start
  bash: /etc/init.d/sshd: No such file or directory
  bmike1@Michaels-PC:~$ ssh localhost
  ssh: connect to host localhost port 22: Connection refused
  bmike1@Michaels-PC:~$

# cd /etc/init.d/
# ls -al ssh*

It's called /etc/init.d/ssh in Ubuntu https://help.ubuntu.com/10.04/serverguide/C/openssh-server.html

bmike1@Michaels-PC:~$  cd /etc/init.d/
bmike1@Michaels-PC:/etc/init.d$  ls -al ssh*
-rwxr-xr-x 1 root root 4194 2011-07-29 09:02 ssh
bmike1@Michaels-PC:/etc/init.d$ cd ssh
bash: cd: ssh: Not a directory
bmike1@Michaels-PC:/etc/init.d$ sudo ssh start
[sudo] password for bmike1:  sat for five minutes
^Cbmike1@Michaels-PC:/etc/init.d$

Okay that's possibly a path issue.

if you are in the directory you would enter:

# sudo ./ssh start

otherwise
 
# sudo /etc/init.d/ssh start

Oh... I forgot the './' Bummer!  I thought this might make the ubuntu so that other machines could ssh into it but still connection times out.



why did the sound stop working?

>>Another problem that just started is the sound on the print server stopped working. I clicked on the speaker icon >>to turn it up and I see it is maxed. So then I clicked 'sound settings' and the output volume is maxed so I >>investigate the tabs. The first tab (hardware) has nothing in the 'choose a device to configure' window. So >>somehow the driver was removed (I guess).


Which distro? 

Ubuntu (print server).