Sorry Hans, I doid not see the further questions.
Am 16. Oct, 2012 schwätzte Dazed_75 so:
ls -ld /tmp/dbus-*
larry@fogtest:~$ ls -al /tmp/
total 32
drwxrwxrwt 7 root root 4096 2012-10-16 15:28 ./
drwxr-xr-x 24 root root 4096 2012-04-27 00:13 ../
drwx------ 2 gdm gdm 4096 2012-10-14 10:53 .esd-114/
srwxr-xr-x 1 larry larry 0 2012-10-16 15:28 gedit.larry.1810654947=
drwxrwxrwt 2 root root 4096 2012-10-14 10:53 .ICE-unix/
drwx------ 2 gdm gdm 4096 2012-10-14 11:23 orbit-gdm/
drwx------ 2 gdm gdm 4096 2012-10-14 10:53 pulse-PKdhtXMmr18n/
-r--r--r-- 1 root root 11 2012-10-14 10:53 .X0-lock
drwxrwxrwt 2 root root 4096 2012-10-14 10:53 .X11-unix/
larry@fogtest:~$
Wonder if it's trying to use the wrong socket. There might be a stale
socket since you're running headless, but boot should fix that by cleaning
out /tmp. Does fogtest get shutdown or do you hibernate it?
The obvious solution is you need to start using vim :).
ciao,
der.hans