okay,
netsstat on the server prints out a lot of data.
The first section says:
Active Internet connections (w/o servers)
Proto Recv-Q Send-Q Local Address Foreign Address State
tcp 0 0
192.168.0.4:38521 lax17s01-in-f21.1:https ESTABLISHED
tcp 0 0
192.168.0.4:36523 lax17s01-in-f4.1e:https ESTABLISHED
tcp 0 0 localhost:45886 localhost:53919 ESTABLISHED
tcp 0 0 localhost:ssh localhost:56545 ESTABLISHED
tcp 0 0 localhost:44799 localhost:53919 ESTABLISHED
tcp 0 0 localhost:47157 localhost:53919 ESTABLISHED
tcp 0 0 localhost:53919 localhost:44799 ESTABLISHED
tcp 0 0 localhost:53919 localhost:47157 ESTABLISHED
tcp 0 0 localhost:56545 localhost:ssh ESTABLISHED
tcp 0 0 localhost:53919 localhost:45886 ESTABLISHED
tcp 0 0
192.168.0.4:37884 lax17s01-in-f0.1e:https ESTABLISHED
tcp 0 0
192.168.0.4:45304 lax17s01-in-f5.1e:https ESTABLISHED
tcp 0 0
192.168.0.4:36525 lax17s01-in-f4.1e:https ESTABLISHED
tcp6 1 0 ip6-localhost:53614 ip6-localhost:ipp CLOSE_WAIT
while the second section says:
Active UNIX domain sockets (w/o servers)
Proto RefCnt Flags Type State I-Node Path
unix 18 [ ] DGRAM 11578 /dev/log
unix 2 [ ] DGRAM 10914 /var/run/wpa_supplicant/wlan0
unix 3 [ ] STREAM CONNECTED 343530
unix 3 [ ] STREAM CONNECTED 198728
unix 3 [ ] STREAM CONNECTED 198167
unix 3 [ ] STREAM CONNECTED 198683
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while on the remote system netstat prints 7 lines that is basically the second section (above).
I'm not sure how to run sshin debug mode but the man page implies to run it with the verbose flag:
:~$ ssh -v
mike@192.168.1.101OpenSSH_6.6.1, OpenSSL 1.0.1f 6 Jan 2014
debug1: Reading configuration data /etc/ssh/ssh_config
debug1: /etc/ssh/ssh_config line 19: Applying options for *
debug1: Connecting to 192.168.1.101 [192.168.1.101] port 22.
debug1: connect to address 192.168.1.101 port 22: Connection timed out
ssh: connect to host 192.168.1.101 port 22: Connection timed out
bmike1@CQ57-1:~$ ssh -vv
mike@192.168.1.101
OpenSSH_6.6.1, OpenSSL 1.0.1f 6 Jan 2014
debug1: Reading configuration data /etc/ssh/ssh_config
debug1: /etc/ssh/ssh_config line 19: Applying options for *
debug2: ssh_connect: needpriv 0
debug1: Connecting to 192.168.1.101 [192.168.1.101] port 22.
debug1: connect to address 192.168.1.101 port 22: Connection timed out
ssh: connect to host 192.168.1.101 port 22: Connection timed out
:~$ ps -aef | grep sshd
root 1308 1 0 Jul15 ? 00:00:00 /usr/sbin/sshd -D
bmike1 19566 4242 0 11:53 pts/2 00:00:00 grep --colour=auto sshd
it doesn't seem ssh failed at any point.